It is officially the end-of-summer and everyone’s talking back to school and back to work. I don’t know about you, but I feel very ready to get back into a schedule and that includes healthy eating and cooking more at home. I’m enjoying recipes now like my sheet pan teriyaki tofu with pineapple and veggies and my simple enchilada casserole. These types of simple recipes are great for any family big or small but when I’m looking for an expert on feeding larger families, I turn to a fellow dietitian expert like my friend Jodie Shield, MED, RDN, LDN who can really speak about making family meals a priority with a focus on Dinner: How to Just Do It!
Whether you have a family of your own, often eat with friends, eat as a couple or even alone, her tips inspire everyone to get back to the table this fall season with healthy habits. I also wanted to include a list of dietitian blogs at the bottom of this post that focus on healthy eating for families and/or kids at the end of the post so be sure to check that out.
Kids (and adults) need more than a calculator and sharp pencil to ace their next math quiz. This school year, introduce your family to the power of the dinner hour. Sure breakfast is important, but so is sitting down to regularly scheduled family meals. Studies have shown that children and teens who eat family meals three to five times a week are more likely to score better grades, have higher self-esteem, communicate better with their parents, and are less likely to be overweight. Shopping, cooking and cleaning up dinner is not for the feint of heart. When families are over-scheduled with work, school, sports and volunteering, the obstacles to getting dinner on the table each night can be daunting. Here are ten tips to help you get a healthy dinner on the table fast. You’ll find them in my Jodi’s book Healthy Eating, Healthy Weight for Kids and Teens. Another favorite meal prep book of mine is Toby Amidor’s Healthy Meal Prep Cookbook – also great for autumn!
Dinner: How to Just Do It! 10 tips to try this fall
- Make family meals a priority. Issue a challenge: every family member must make a commitment to come to dinner and stick to it—sign a family contract if necessary. If meals are pleasant, kids and adults alike will begin to value time together.
- Strive for five meals a week. Get out your calendar and choose the five family dinner nights. If your family is currently over-scheduled, you may need to work up to five meals a week. Start with just one or two meals a week and plan to limit future activities that conflict with family dinners.
- Plan the menu before the meal. Ask your family members to help plan the menus—this gives them an incentive to come to the table. Also, advance meal planning can save time, money, and calories. Find a spot in your kitchen (like the refrigerator door) to post the family dinner menu.
- Keep dinner simple: serve one main item. Your kitchen is not a food court. Not everybody gets to eat their favorite meal each night, and you don’t need to serve elaborate feasts. Instead, provide meals that are balanced with plenty of ingredients that help kids reach and maintain a healthy weight. There is a division of responsibility between parents and kids at meal time and it’s really important to strike that balance. Registered Dietitian expert Ellyn Satter is my absolute go-to for this subject.
- Cook fast but eat slowly. When your time is limited, cut back on food prep while allowing ample time to enjoy the meal and each other. Set a beginning and ending time for the meal so that family members can plan accordingly. Eating slower helps prevent overeating, and kids will be more likely to leave the table full and satisfied.
- Have realistic expectations about younger family member’s eating habits. Younger children often have a tough time sitting still and will only last a short time at the dinner table. Tweens and teens can have mood swings that make or break the time you all spend together. Understanding the stages kids go through can help you have positive family meals.
- Be prepared for the pre-meal madness. The time just before dinner can be a challenge, especially for younger kids. You’re busy and folks are hungry, crabby, and clingy. Make a simple healthy snack part of the routine. Set out baby carrots and hummus dip for everyone to nibble on. Also make a pre-dinner activity box for younger kids that includes paper and crayons they can use to draw pictures of daily activities to talk about during the meal.
- Turn off cellphones and the TV. Family meals are really about uninterrupted time together. Make it a rule: no texting or TV watching at the table.
- Keep conversation light and positive. Make mealtime enjoyable so everyone will treasure the ritual and look forward to it. Save discipline and arguments for later. If challenging topics like politics or religion are an issue for your group, save them for another time!
- Delegate responsibilities for prep and clean up. Before meals, some family members can set the table and help toss salads and pour beverages. After eating they can help wash, dry, and put away the pots, pans, and dishes. Make a chore chart and take turns. Listen to music so chores go faster and are more pleasant. Dancing in the kitchen is allowed and encouraged.
Dietitian resources you need to follow:
- My Menu Pal by Ann Dunaway Teh and Lesley Baradel is geared for families. They both work in family as well as sports nutrition. In addition to our menu planning we offer lots of great tips and advice on the blog for free as well as consulting services.
- Liz Weiss runs Liz’s Healthy Table, a blog dedicated to healthy recipes for families. She also hosts a free radio podcast which is so FUN!
- Emily Kyle has three different pages: Nutrition for Women, Nutrition for Baby, and Nutrition for Kids – all geared towards providing easy, relevant information on how to build health and nutrition into a busy lifestyle.
- Kristen Bratcher Smith hosts a family focused blog called 360 Family Nutrition where she provides a complete approach to healthy eating for the whole family.
Ginger Hultin,MS, RD, CSO
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